This one is often a shocker for people. But, as you can imagine, it’s a good thing for a divorce counselor, and especially a divorce mediator, to know. Things heat up. How long do you allow for them to cool… Continue Reading…

Imagine the spiraling vortex of water as it drains from a filled bathtub. It’s an illustration I’ve hand-drawn simply with markers on whiteboards for countless counseling and divorce support group sessions. The analogy works like this. At some baseline point… Continue Reading…